HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY

8th March-women's day


this post is dedicated to my beloved amma,little star,nanda and maza who influenced me to a great extent.i can't think of my life without them-the strong family ties and the traditional values bind us together.

to tolerate me,the immatured,stubborn short tempered and confused loud speaker is impossible.............why am i always the odd one out?no idea.still they love me.they teach me the positive side of life.they convince me silence has strength,soft spoken words have great effect.[even this post is in advance,iam impatient till i pen down my thoughts.........]

amma,dearest,still guides me patiently even in her old age.yes.i 've started improving my ways of living.amma reminds me,i don't have to shout to be heard.amma is anxious about my health.she tries her level bestto remind me how precious time is:not to watse it at pc, neglecting the office work.still i cheat amma like in my school days.

under my school books,i used to hide the magazines.reading the novels from the village library was my weakness.much against the wishes of my parents,i was an active member of the film circle units.what was i trying to prove?a rebel?

mornings were unforgettable.i was never an early bird.nanda used to get up at brmha muhurtam and start studying her daily lessons.bucket full of water had to be poured and then anu would think of getting up.when all the cousins get ready for school on time,anu made them wait for her.

nanda, tells me nature has its own beauty and taking ten steps are better than a car ride.she is the one who spreads the positive energy all around.being a strong follower of SHRI SHRI,her mornings begin with prayers and yoga practice.her smile is her ornament and she is the pillar of our family.

my little star inspires me to pull down and forcefully reminds me of my college figure and the long hair.she is my life.she tells me there is no word called 'impossible' and we must live our lives in high spirits.to forgive and forget the miseries make our life happier.


she simply loves our ancestoral nalukettu and was really shocked when it was demolished.being a great artist, she is a perfectionist.neatness and caring nature won her many hearts.the dresses she designed are simply marvellous!she is GOD'S special creation.my little star believes in traditional values and culture and has a modern outlook.

dear,for u each moment of life is a celebration.[i'm sorry,as i have hurt you many times].

''anu,are you feeling guilty?''yes.i want to restart in a clean slate.i know now,;''time and tide waits for none.''iam trying,really trying to re learn and to look the different aspects of life in a new angle.

amma,thanks,for supporting me.i can't look upon someoneelse.i want to reach you soon,hug you and cry out my heart seeking forgiveness.all the sins will be washed away in my tears lying down on your lap.i know,amma,you are my best friend.

and ,my maza,who consoles me and with whom i can share everything and about everyone.she makes others feel the love and so lovable is she.she enjoys giving and her humble behaviour and sacrificing nature makes her the apple of everyone's eyes.
she is the one who gives me the kicks along with her sweet kisses.where are you dear?[from the other end of the world, she reaches through mails and chats and with the looooooooooong phone calls on sunday evenings........]

little star and maza are always called as''inakuruvikal.''

both of them danced together and the best of friends more than sisters.how can we forget the oppana and little star as manavatti?
maza's popular kuchipudi and peacock dance are evergreen in our minds.
she wants me to write my posts in malayalam and i don't know when i will get time for that.

my life is beautiful mainly because of my dearest ones.they have added colours and very generously take me along in the tough and long journey of life.i do feel protected.

hey,guys,don't wory.if there's a men's day,i will write about you.

by the way,the new year gifts-the beautiful red nokia mobile is the neighbour's envy and the digital camera has captured the numerous happenings...........thank you,dear..........

to all my readers of male category,please take time to tell your woman-your amma/chechie/aniyathi/priyathama/friend/fan-she is special to u and your life is better because of her.[hope u heard me right.iam not shouting...........reminding you softly].

i want to dedicate this beautiful forward to the most influential women of my life..........may GOD be kind to all.........

The One Flaw In Women

By the time the Lord made woman,
He was into his sixth day of working overtime.
An angel appeared and said,
'Why are you spending so much time on this one?'
And the Lord answered, 'Have you seen my spec sheet on her?
She has to be completely washable, but not plastic,
have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable
and able to run on diet coke and leftovers,
have a lap that can hold four children at one time,
have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart
-and she will do everything
with only two hands.'

The angel was astounded at the requirements.
'Only two hands!? No way!
And that's just on the standard model?
That's too much work for one day.
Wait until tomorrow to finish.'

'But I won't, ' the Lord protested.
'I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart.
She already heals herself when she is sick
AND can work 18 hour days.'

The angel moved closer and touched the woman.
'But you have made her so soft, Lord.'

'She is soft,' the Lord agreed,
'but I have also made her tough.
You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish.'

'Will she be able to think?', asked the angel.

The Lord replied,
'Not only will she be able to think,
she will be able to reason and negotiate.'

The angel then noticed something,
and reaching out, touched the woman's cheek.
'Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model.
I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one.'

'That's not a leak,'
the Lord corrected,
'that's a tear!'
'What's the tear for?' the angel asked.

The Lord said, 'The tear is her way of expressing her joy,
her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love,
her loneliness, her grief and her pride.'
The angel was impressed.
'You are a genius, Lord.
You thought of everything!
Woman is truly amazing.'

And she is!
Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness,
love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take 'no' for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about
a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss
can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideals.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Women have vital things to say and everything to give

HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE TINY FLAW IN WOMEN,

IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.

HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY TO ALL THE WONDERFUL LADIES.............you are the strength behind your men.

it's anu signing off.

sasneham,
anu