LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP

30th,may,2009

10a.m
saturday

SEEING IS NOT ALWAYS BELIEVING

good morning !

hey,friends,

the other day i received a forwarded mail from my friend in dubai.

by the end of reading the last line,my eyes were wet.i was so touched and i'm sure you too will be.i was really upset.

with courtesy to my friend,let me share the mail with you.........

while a man was polishing his new car,his four year old son picked some stone and scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger,the man took the child's hand and hit it many times,not realizing he was using an iron wrench

At the hospital,the child's hand lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.when the child saw his father,with painful eyes he asked,''Dad when will my fingers grow back''?

The father was so hurt and speechless.he went back to the car and kicked it a lot of times.

Devastated by his own actions,sitting in front of that car,he looked at the scratches.his little son has written,

''LOVE YOU DAD''

The next day that man committed suicide.

MY GOD!i was totally shaken!do we have patience?do we listen?no,we don't have time!finding fault is always easy.do we think twice before we open our mouths?and think of the hurt we cause into small minds.can we measure the little child by the yardstick of our own years?

my friends,it's never late and it's better late than never!the little heart is full of love!let's laugh with kids,cry with them and play with them!can someone give me the marbles?i love playing with them and forget teh stress of life.

let's learn to bite our tongue when impatient words come.tell yourself-''she/he is just a kid''.please don't ask for too much.

before preaching,let me start learning to understand the little minds than condemn them.let me try to figure out why they do what they do.let me develop love,sympathy,tolerance and kindness.

i'm sure,you will agree with me.let the sweet hands hug us and whisper,''good night''.

as the child grows let's remind them,

you are always remembered,

you are still important,

you are still loved,

you are still cared for,

you are still wanted,

there is nothing good or bad,

our thinking makes it so.............

so,friends,let's learn the language of love and use it always.we will be experts in human relations.we can start thinking about the good points of others.then we will be less selfish.

''Every man i meet is superior in some way .in that,i learn of him''.we will give honest and sincere appreciation to others.

let's be ''hearty in our approbation and lavish in our praise''.

the thookanam kuruvikal[small cute birds] are making nests on the coconut leaves...............can we too make our nest ,a paradise?

it's anu signing off.............

friends,if you receive very touching and beautiful mails,please forward it to your friends........

i owe an apology to suresh of kochi.i never wanted to hurt you,with my sharp language.i'm sorry.i don't have your mail id.

have abeautiful and pleasant day..........

enjoy this week end............

please don't wait to give the sweet kiss and a tight hug to all the little ones,the loveliest creation of GOD.

dearest maza and jeevz,wishing you a wonderful and happy birthday.................A BIG GOD BLESS YOU!

:):):):):):):):):):):)

sasneham,

anu