ONCE UPON A TIME...........

30th,August,2010
Monday
Dear Friends,
         Good Morning!

I had been to the capital city-Thiruvananthapuram and came back today morning.It is raining and the whole atmosphere is cold.We had our family functions held at Tvpm and after a long time I could  meet many of my relatives.Strengthening the bonds and reliving the memories we had a very  nice time.I was at the mike at the party inviting and encouraging one and all to present an event.I did sing a Hindi number dedicated to little baby,darling..After the dinner we had a real bash dancing to the different numbers in Hindi.I loved and enjoyed dancing  with Kishen,Maza and Vidya.We had fun.

A huge ball of jasmine garland was given in a big lotus leaf and I really loved the enchnating flowers.The strands were put beautifully on the hair.

Everyone at some stage needs somebody to talk .We are surrounded by close relationships.All our relationships have a special  place in our lives and affect us in different ways.They are all important to make our lives happily.Smoothness in relations is a must orelse the peace will be taken away.The greatest joy and sorrow come with relations.Today's post is on the pain the attachment has brought in someone's life.The friendhip has strained due to misunderstanding and tensions.
'Time makes us to forget some persons.But some persons make us forget time.Such  a lovely person is reading this post now.Hearty welcome!

Often we reach the  crossroads of life;

Getting confused where and how to go,
When we stand without moving ,
We wish for the sincere voice that guides us correctly.
But then it is not necessary we have the voice always;
It thus happened to the most wonderful friend of mine.
She is a chatterbox always bubbling with high spirits.

Reaching out to her friends when the need arises.

For her, friends meant a lot !
She loved each and everyone!

And she had someone special too!

He always had a listening ear whenever she needed!

She made others feel life is so meaningful and beautiful.

Deep  within the soul,they knew,

They shared a love unlike others;

His thoughts brought out emotions which she never knew.

She felt the magical moments,

By his words and mails and phone calls.

She learnt to love the heart that hurts her

But never hurts the heart that loves her.

Thinking back she remembers,

How vibrant and meaningful the friendship was,

And how good and comfortable they used to feel.

As  the time flew,she got busy with life,
Not knowing that changes are taking place in relations!
Her fingers wanted to get entangled with his,
And she wanted t lie down on his chest,
Listening to his heartbeats!

And she always felt that heart beats are for her!

She always thought he is forever her  friend
May be she was overconfident;
It was really shocking even for the special occasion,
He did not reach her to wish her,

But later she was heartbroken when her friend told her,

She received a greeting call from him!
Now life has taught her pain can be the wonderful teacher,
The life-changing incidents do occur unexpectedly.   

Now she has lost the word TRUST
from her life.
She does not find a calm moment now,
As she is attacked by the situations.
Still she strings words beautifully,
Bringing a smile and cheer.
She suffers the moments of silence now,
And they have become unbearable.
She was tossing restlessly in her sleep.
She was behaving quite oddly these days;
I can never think of my friend in pain or stress,

As she is my best buddy and a gem .

Removing the doubts and fears from the mind,

She is slowly moving on....

And I am with her assuring emotional and moral support..........

Friends,

           Relations  if they start taking their toll on our mental,physical and emotional health,it is better let go;move on.Depression and loneliness should not affect us.Some friendships will never mend again.We can hardly change people but we can change ourselves and our attitudes.Getting involved in activities and work let us live life in a better way.Now give  me a smile.Tonight I need it very badly.:)

It's Anu signing off..............
Kal usko dekhkar yaad aaya

Hum bhi kabhi mohabaat kiya karte they.

''We can not direct the wind;but we can adjust the sails''.

Requesting you to be very careful in building relations,

And see that the heart you love does not ache.

Praying her silence won't haunt him,

 Reminding Anu loves you,dil se,

Wishing All Of You A Wonderful Month Of Septemeber,

                                                    Sasneham,

                                                             Anu