18th,February,2010
Thursday
7p.m
Dear Friends,
Good Evening!
Today was a hectic but beautiful day!there are reasons to smile.:)I had two submissions and could do them successfully.The best part of the day was a show for a large audience presented in the morning.The programme was on Values;My favourite theme forever!Planning,writing the script,training more than twentyfive participants,inspiring them and giving classes in communication skills,giving demonstrations and ultimately my show won laurels and heartfelt appreciatin.some of them were from hindi speaking area and I had to struggle to make them confident to speak in very good English.None needed any prompting.[Amma never likes me looking at the paper and giving speech].Same way I make the participants learn the script thorougnhly.Every year I do two or three shows on different themes.A few responses are,''Anu, that was areal good job.How could you do that?''''Anu,the presentation was so nice.How could they learn the script?''Appreciation makes our day.A surprise awaited me in Diana's blog.She has honoured me by republishing my previous post.I didn't know,Di,the lines will be so helpful to inspire someone who is in deep grief.I'm happy through your post,many more readers could find peace with The Message From Carlin.
Today I want to write about a real life experience of my friend.
Many times when the phone rings,we neglect the calls or feel lazy to get up and pick up the receiver in case of land phones.In the case of friends and lovers,they need privacy to talk which mobile phones provide lavishly.
Distance do matter and it causes problems;
The physical presence makes a lot of difference;
One has the confidence and peace,
When your dear ones are with you.
She wanted to talk to him very badly,
To share her anxieties as usual.
He is the only best friend she has,
With whom she shares her personal life.
They used to spend time together daily,
On phone,through mails and chats.
Once he had to leave for native place,
And that was the beginning of the problems.
Each time she tried to reach him,
The phone kept on ringing,
But he never picked up the phone.
She was getting upset,
Adding fuel to the fire,
Her thoughts went wild,
With the very thought of losing him.
She was feeling miserable,
Just like being left in an island,
Where noone could see her or hear her.
Daily she tried his number,
Mostly he was out of range,
Or the call was not answered.
I must tell you friends,
The void,the loneliness,
Caused her a lot of mental tensions,
Taking away the cheer and enthusiasm;
Things were not going great for her,
She was desperate to hear him,
The voice that gave her care and love,
The voice that had a magical touch.
She became gloomy and quiet,
Being unable to concentrate in her work!
There was hardly any communication
As he didn't have any internet facility,
To send mails or come on chats.
I don't know why he didn't send sms,
Even she could not answer that question.
She is one of my good friends,
And I have seen her suffering the nights.
To him,situation was the villian.
He was in a different place after a year.
And was busy engaged with family,
And friends took most of his time.
Noone could realise he too missed her;
But my suggestion was sms could have solved the problem.
Out of sight may not be out of mind,
But being in touch is very much necessary.
We must rekindle the flame of friendship,
To maintain a real friendship is not very easy.
We have to swallow our pride often,
And be willing to accept our mistakes.
Both of them did turn a new leaf,
Now with enough spice and surprises,
Both of them are back on their tracks,:)
They are meant to be together,
Slowly and steadily they will be.
But at night,when the world sleeps,
I can hear the deep sighs from her!
'Let go' of someone whom
We deeply love is so painful,
A devastating and tormenting task.
Anyways I did not witness a break up,
She is once again the same bubbly sweet heart!:)
It's Anu signing off..............
Friends,
Please do attend the call and who knows the caller may need you very badly at that moment.
Wishing you a lovely and dreamy night,
Reminding you Anu loves you dil se,
Sasneham,
Anu
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